Love Cannot Be Grown in a Man with Sex Present
Females go wrong in the beginning when a man is met by giving sex. The primitive nature of a man cannot be changed, but besides that, love and lust are governed by two different parts of the soul. If a female wants a man to grow love for her, she must not have sex with him. Love in a man can only be grown without sex.Females give men sex, ignorantly thinking the men are interested in them, which is not true, since the men are mostly interested in sex and what females have to offer in terms of sex. Once the sex was offered a man is freed from the woman and can focus on his work or start looking for another woman to have sex with.
This results in a female not knowing if the man loves her or if he has grown accustomed to her over the years. Many men have confessed that they're not in love with their life-partners or wives, not really knowing what love is, proven by continuously mentioning how wonderful the sex was in the beginning of their relationship and how the passion disappeared after a while, but they live with them as a result of having become accustomed to their spouses or life-partners as opposed to truly loving them!
On the other hand, many men are married who’ve never experienced real love for their life-partners, even though they might not cheat and although they treat their spouses or life-partners with dignity and respect, they don’t truly experience love!
Men are mostly oblivious that the women exist, because they’re only interested in the sex. Men mostly notice a female’s breasts, sexy legs and other sexy body parts, forgetting to look at or rather noticing her face, appealing personality, social participation and/or uniqueness.
When the guy doesn’t phone the female after allowing sex, she starts courting him by phoning him and/or showing up at his residence. In retrospect she should know she made a mistake, let go, move on and live with it without contacting him, when he doesn’t perform the courting part; but a female cannot take the courting over from him if he doesn’t do his part and do it out of his own.
The females who are able to get the guys, who they had sex with before marriage, to date them again and get them to the altar for marriage, never know whether “their guy” is or was truly in love with them. Years down the line, this husband might meet another and question his love, especially the moment sex isn’t as frequently available to him from his spouse or life-partner as it was in the past as a result of having children, being too busy taking part in the rat race or any other reason. This very often ends in infidelity on the husband’s part and/or divorce and is related to the woman’s mistake, since women are supposed to apply the breaks and not allow sex until the man is truly in love, interested in her as a being, wants her and claims her by marrying her.
To force a man to become interested in a woman’s personality, character traits, qualities etc. the women need to keep sex from the men. In other words, the guy’s focal point must be shifted from only seeing the sex elements of a female to becoming aware of the other long-term contributing elements, which can only be done without sex.
To get the guys to go through all the stages of lust and emotions until they get to the stage where they want to get to know the female and her soul for the qualities and character traits she possesses and contributes, sex must not be present, as sex cuts everything off for the man, as part of a man’s primitive nature, which cannot be changed that makes it impossible for a man to become interested and then the importance of getting to know her disappears.
So, women go wrong in the beginning. Where women are supposed to apply the breaks to get the men to become interested in them as beings, they give the men sex and then cannot understand why the men aren’t interested in them as beings or have respect for them as beings.
Fact is, a woman gets wiped off a man’s mind with sex, but if the man first made commitments or has taken vows in the presence of witnesses, he is in a different state of mind when he has sex with his life-partner.
Keep in mind that normal women are emotionally invested after the first sexual encounter with a man, as a direct result of the spiritual attachment that forms during sex. It is very rare for a woman to have sex merely for the sake of the sex, without having any form of emotional investment. Unless afflicted or psychologically affected, which includes any form of psychological deflection and abnormality, spiritual and/or physical contamination, which causes women to have less sensitivity and sensation, a woman cannot have sex without having or experiencing some sort of emotional connection.
Members of Universal Sex Ethics are provided with the stages and signs a man goes through and displays to ensure the woman knows when love is grown in a man, of which one of the stages is a visible physical display women don’t know about.
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